Homeschool Corner: Space!

SPACE!

Not as in the final frontier. As in, we finally have space to play!

We just moved into our new house and I'm pretty much done with the playroom, for now anyway. The kids love it and I anticipate a lot of learning happening here. Because of the homeschooling philosophy I'm more drawn to, I tried my hardest not to make it resemble a classroom. Hence the couch and trampoline and such. My main goal is to provide a safe, pleasant place for the kids to play and provide materials for them to learn from. Without having to do the formal teaching.





BUT...I was almost completely talked out of homeschooling by the staff at Mateo's preschool last week. I decided to let him finish out the year with his preschool class to give him some closure with his school experience. And because he's in the special ed system we had to have his annual PPT (planning and placement team) meeting last week to go over his progress and what his goals should be for next year.

The staff knew that I intended to homeschool so they came with the agenda to talk me out of it. And they almost had me! During the meeting they had me so convinced that I really couldn't provide the best environment for my kid and only they could that I just about started filling out the school application right then and there. But then I stopped for a moment after (talked through some things with family and friends) and got pissed!

How dare anyone tell me that I can't, as a mom, find every way possible to provide my own kid with the best opportunities in the world! Of course I can. No one cares more about Mateo than me and his dad. We will do anything it takes to help him succeed!

But they did have a point about peer models. Having good role models seems to really be helping Mateo learn some perseverance and frustration tolerance. I think that it will be important for us to maintain that. But is that something only a school can provide? No way! There are many ways to provide Mateo with peer models and, again, we care about him the most so we will get it done, whatever it takes.

I'm not saying homeschooling will last forever. Or that it will be the right choice forever. I'm just saying that as of next year, I feel in my gut, the right decision is for him to stay home.

Now, my only concern is for my sanity. But...that's a whole other post.

Adoption Video!

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Adoption!!!!

Introducing...Maya! Who is now legally ours forever!






Is she not the cutest thing ever? Tomorrow I will post her adoption video which shows her journey from birth to adoption.

Red Bull Gives You Wings

I am dead tired today. I don't know why. Dave says it's low iron. I got plenty of sleep but I'm just sleepy and don't want to do anything.

Well, that's not exactly possible when caring for a 4 yr old and a 1 yr old. So I was laying on the couch trying to talk myself into getting up when Mateo comes over and says,

Mommy, I sit with you, you get better.

Me: Oh thank you. I need coffee. That's what I need.

Mateo: I buy you coffee with my money.

Me: That's so nice. Will you fly to Dunkin Donuts and get me one now?

Mateo: I can't. Me not have wings. Sorry.

Me: That's okay.


By the way, I did get a coffee later and felt much better!

The Census; it's Harder Than I Thought

There's been some controversy with the new census and the now millions of multi-racial families. And, like many things, it's not so black and white.

My kids are mostly Hispanic (Puerto Rican to be exact), with a little african american thrown in, and possibly more. Now, here's why it was so hard. Hispanic isn't a race. Most minority or multi-racial people filling out the census are basing it on how other people perceive them. Or what they look like.

If you are biracial (african-american and caucasian) but have african-american features and even just light brown skin, most people will lump you with the black population.

So...Mateo does not look white, even though he's not really black. He has medium brown skin but wavy brown hair. What do we put for his race? Technically, hispanic people are caucasion "of hispanic origin". But that wasn't an option for the race category.

For us, in hearing how other minorities were filling it out, we chose to mark the kids based on what they looked like. So for Mateo we checked off caucasian and black. For Maya, because she has much lighter skin, we just checked caucasion.

Under the ethnicity question, we checked Hispanic (specified as Puerto Rican) for both of them.

I can see why there's been such commotion about it. What about you? Did you have any trouble filling out the census this year?

*** Edit to add***
(written by J-momma's husband, and statistics expert)

Re: Janiece's question below:

just wanted to answer your question on the bio vs adopted question on the census: You're partially right, the differentiation between bio, step, adopted, foster, etc.. does not affect the distribution of the # of representatives and other major "population" issues. It does effect the distribution of federal funds. The US Government supports and subsidizes domestic and international adoption through many different grant programs (to individuals, organizations, state governments, researchers, etc...) Grant money disbursed to the States is based on population (and their current adoption stats). For instance, if Congress wants to vote to increase the current $11,000 tax credit for adoption expenses to, say, $15,000 then they need to know what it's going to cost the taxpayers. They use census data (along with many other things) to predict those costs.
The census could also be used to analyze statistical discrepancies between reported domestic private and relative adoptions. How many people identify the children living with them as "adopted", yet have not gone through the court system to receive legal guardianship? Not sure, the census data would help answer those types of questions.
The census is also used for many "non-governmental" reasons. The data (once compiled) is open and available to every US citizen, organization or company. The data is used for everything from determining advertising demographics to predicting trends in housing upstarts. The company I work for uses census demographic data to predict pre-k / kindergarten enrollment in particular school districts and, in turn we invest more money in marketing to those school systems that we predict will have an increase in enrollment (and in turn, need more stuff).
Here's a link to the census dept.'s Adoption statistics report from the last (2000) census. Since 2000 was the first time that adoption was an option, it will be very interesting to compare the differences between this report and the report that will (presumably) be issued in the years following the 2010 census.